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How gratitude will help you go from poverty to prosperity

I heard someone say we need to watch our spending because everything is going up in price and if you are not careful you will not have enough money.

I used to buy into this reasoning and this mindset until I realised that there is so much money in this world that we certainly can’t run out of it anytime soon.

There’s something about your mindset that seems to drive what shows up in your reality. Ever notice how some people never have enough money, others seem to have sufficient and then there are those who have an abundance. I’m thinking that those with abundance must be operating from an abundant mindset. They don’t believe that there is too little money, they just have figured out how to get money to flow to them.

Look I’m not saying there isn’t poverty and that people just have to think about more money then they will get more. No, I’m saying that when we live from a place of gratitude for what we have and we stop complaining about what we don’t have, money will start to come to us.

Just like we keep love away from us when we close our hearts, so too do we keep money and prosperity away from us when we shut out possibility. Ever notice how some people can make a living by doing things we would never have thought of? They’ve learnt how to open themselves up to possibility. (P.S and I’m not talking about anything illegal or unlawful).

Gratitude is the language of GOD. Every expression of gratitude opens the lines of communication between us and GOD. When we learn the language of God we speak with faith and anything seems possible.

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Intention, the solution to reaching fulfilling goals

As I get more and more invested and familiar with the Life Coaching profession I am learning that there are so many people who are still so stuck on chasing goals and making the next big dream come true.

Traditionally Life Coaching started as a profession to help people set clear goals. The coach helped the client develop a S.M.A.R.T plan to reach these goals. The role of the coach being to motivate, support and give the client tools to realise their dreams and achieve their goals as quickly and effortlessly as possible.

Having clearly defined goals and striving towards them with focus is admirable and will certainly bring with it a wonderful feeling of accomplishment once the goal is reached.

Goal-orientated coaching is focused on the outward achievement of material things. Reaching this goal means that the client will now start focusing on the next goal and this becomes a never ending chase to the finish line so that the trophy can be won.

The negative about being so focused on goals is that there is a chase to reach the dream and in the process the journey towards the dream is lost.

When we set an intention, and live them in our lives, we are allowing our values to drive how we show up and we are aligned with what is most important to us. In our moment to moment living we are connected to our inner experience of the journey towards our goals.

Setting clear intentions AND having lofty goals is a much better model to bring to the clients life. In partnership the two can bring so much more fulfillment and achievement.

Intentions are in the present moment and are felt, goals are in the future and are reached.

Many people have not yet realised that every goal they are chasing is because they believe that reaching it will make them experience some emotion.Whether its the feeling of love, security, freedom, happiness or accomplishment, the end result of what they really want is to feel something not only have something.

I believe that bringing intention into the goal setting and coaching the client to connect to the feeling even before the goal is achieved brings a new level of depth to the clients life.

If you have a goal you’ve set for 2016 and you are focused and working diligently towards it everyday, I’de like to invite you to set the intention to really enjoy every milestone reached on your journey towards your goal.

There is a big difference between climbing the mountain to reach the top AND climbing the mountain to reach the top with the intention of enjoying the flowers, wildlife, weather and scenery along the way.

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My little gremlin, the voice of fear

Have you noticed that the tough decisions we have to make is almost always the one’s that gives us the most fulfilling and satisfying feelings once we are brave enough to face them?

Deciding to step into my purpose and pursue life coaching and mentoring as a full time job was easy in the heart but oh so tough in the mind. You know that feeling when your heart says “YES, this feels right!” and your head says, “what on earth do you think you doing?” Well I battled with that feeling for a long time and even after everything aligned and fell into place, I still have moments when I think, what are you thinking?

Because I’m a trained coach, I know this kind of self-talk. It’s the voice inside our head which is fear-based and wants to keep us safe at all cost. Some call it the ego but I like to think of it as my little gremlin who feels threatened by my personal evolution and transformation. She’s so sly. Making me think she’s just so concerned about my well-being when in reality she’s just so afraid of being replaced with wonder, magic and abundance. I’ve listened to her for so many years, living in fear of “what ifs” and remaining small and invisible. But not anymore!

Replacing the voice of fear with the voice of abundance and love is no easy task. It’s not something you can do once and then your fears are gone forever. We have to do it everyday. And on somedays the voice of fear is SCREAMING and the voice of abundance and love is really battling to make itself heard.

I’m sure you have your own little gremlins who speak to you in that fear-based voice when you want to step out and do something different. Next time you hear her/him whisper in your ear “what if”….. take a deep breath, go to that quiet place within and ask yourself “why not”.